Even when situations don't seem to make much sense or fit with "our plan", God is in control.  Sometimes he MAKES us take the next step....I always think of that when I read Psalm 23....He MAKES me lie down in green pastures.  Does that mean on my own, or even if "invited to" I would not do that?  Probably.  Today's step...LIE DOWN IN GREEN PASTURES.  Let Him speak to you....rest in His sovereignty, enjoy His blessings, be restored by His everlasting LOVE.